“CHILDERN NEED ATTENTION’’

We can all identify a child who seems to need an inordinate amount of attention. His teachers are challenged by his needy behavior; his classmates, his friends and his siblings are tolerant, but only up to a point; and his parents are often at  end. He is always acting out the adage “negative attention is better than no attention at all.” The most common reason for a child’s misbehavior is his need of attention. The child feels inadequate unless he is constantly at the center of things. He thinks, “I have no place unless people pay attention to me. They should talk about how everybody needs attention; that we all need to interact with others and we need the validation of our friends and the approval of our superiors. Yet, the better we feel about ourselves. Children need a lot of attention. Parenting is not a part-time job  they need attention at the right time and of the right quality. If they receive this attention, they will be satisfied, they will be fulfilled. If they don’t get it, they will go looking for it, often in the wrong way. They will look for it from teachers and from their friends. They will look for it from you. They will demand it from you, and you will end up having to put a lot more time and attention into your children, often in ways you don’t want, than if you had given them the attention they needed when they needed it. We are about what we are doing, the less we need approval and validation. Because we are all social beings we all have social needs, but when one person overwhelms others with his or her need for recognition and attention, others are frustrated and become unwilling to tolerate it.” It’s also important that when we are with our children that we are sharing something of ourselves not just being busy with them taking them places or doing “stuff”. There needs to be that human connection of your heart to their heart.
This  may be very challenging for some parents who, like me, had a demanding role in their work, or who are responsible for other people, or who just have to earn a living for their family without a lot of choices as to how they are going to do that. This is where you may need to have a re-think about your work-life balance, to re-evaluate your priorities, and make some decisions about what is important to you before it’s too late.

I have come to the conclusion that the approach one has to take in parenting is more a matter of looking at oneself, improving oneself and becoming a better person who is more content, patient and tolerant.”

MIRACLES OF ISLAM IN THE WORLD

Islam, a religion who gives the message of peace. Islam is the most common religion in the world even people from other religions are inspire from Islam because of its simplicity and reality. There are a lot of moments in the history of Islam who teaches us a great lesson and especially the life of our Prophet (P. B. U. H.) is a very good example and help for Muslims to maintain our life according to our religion. Our Holy book Quran is a great solution of our all problems. Though out of those moment’s a few miracles are shared which makes us realize that our religion is so powerful and makes our Imaan stronger.

Hajr-e-Aswad, a floating stone in Arab.

This incident is from Shab-e-Mairaj when our Prophet Mohammad (P. B. U. H.) were going to visit the Arsh MuAllah, this stone requested to go with our Prophet (P. B. U. H.) but Mohammad (P. B. U. H.) denied him so the stone stopped right away at the same place in air and up till now the stone is floating in the air.

 Dajjal (one eye man) he will appear on earth and claim to be God! Many people will follow him and accept his false testimony. But in the end, he will be slain by Isa. According to the Hadith, “The spear of Isa shall plunge into Dajjal’s chest, ending his dreaded reign… all those who embraced the evil of Dajjal shall perish even as the Breath of Isa touches them.” There will be no escape for anyone who accepted the lies of the antichrist and followed him. The Hadith says, “The followers of Dajjal will be rooted out, for even the trees and rocks will speak out against them.” Miracles are just a sign of guidance to the right way for those who are not believers in one God “Allah”. As Allah says in Quran “We will show them Our signs in all the regions of the earth and in their own souls until they clearly see that this is the truth…” (Surah Fussilat 41:53) Allah shows us his eldership through different miracles, like an animal saying the name of Allah, name of almighty Allah is written on different things in different styles is so surprising.

Allah has promised to keep his book the Holy Quran saved forever and it is. Once a women denied the Holy Quran and claimed it a fake book (MaAzAllah), her body was changed in a shape of animal for the rest of life. The below picture shows a great example of safety of our Holy Book.

 

 I’m feeling that we are very near to QAYAMAT .we are getting lots sings of Existence of Allah very easily, he is showing his existence through leaf, tree, food, meat, fish, human, cloud, earth, water, animals ,birds. Converting to ISLAM is rising everyday .in a video they said,Every week 100 Americans are converting to Islam. Are we prepare for Qayamat ???????

BASANT - FESTIVAL OF SPRING SEASON

'Basant' festival of joy. It is celebrated on national level in Pakistan. Basant festival is celebrated on the arrival of spring. The celebration of spring known is as 'JasHn-e-bahara' in Urdu, and is celebrated in the entire country.In particular Basant festival is celebrated in Punjab. Other cities in which basant is mainly celebrated are Karachi, Hyderabad, Faislabad, Sialkot and Rawalpindi/ Islamabad,Quetta etc.

Young girls and boys wear yellow dresses and dance on the beat of Dhole that's called Bhangra, play with colours, exchanging gifts and express their love to each other in different ways.

On these days of this  fabulous festival, the sky is covered with all kinds of beautiful large and small kites that decorate the sky in a glorious and pleasing day. It looks like some professional painter has painted the sky with beautiful colors. In basant festival kites are of medium size normally from 1 to 4 feet in diameter. Kites are usually made of special papers or colourful sheets for this purpose.The kite is tied with unique thread called “Doore” or "Manja". Doore is the most important thing in kite flying and many precautions are taken to prepare it.

Thread of Doore is locally prepared.It is spread on the thread in an exclusive way which then becomes “DOORE”.

Hundreds of tourists not only within country but also from outside the country comes to enjoy this festival in Pakistan. Some pressure groups strongly condemn basant festival. Many processions and protests are reported who are of the opinion that as every year million of rupress are spent on basant festival which if used in helping poor or in welfare could be more productive. While on the other hand, other says that basant increases economic activity in the city and others businesses as basant attracts people from around the corner who are willing to pay for whatever the city offers.

But such a joyful festival has a dark side as well. Hospitals are packed with kite flyers that fell off roofs and children who were hit by cars as they ran down the streets to get kitesas their faces are turn towards the sky to watch the kites.

Some cities of the country darkens when sharp kite cords rolled in powdered glass or made of steel cuts off electricity wires. Therefore, government has announced the reward of Rs5000, for anyone who reports the usage of metal wire by anyone as “Dor”.

PAKISTANI FESTIVALS

Pakistan is a multicultural country. Besides the religious festivals, there are many other cultural and festive events taking place all around the year all over Pakistan. Festivals in Pakistan are held by color, prayers and ritual. Pakistan's calendar features many Muslim religious festivals. There are several festivals held regularly in every part of the country. These events include exhibitions, festivals and local events. These festivals make peoples happy or arranged many parties and have a great time with each other. There are many interesting and Islamic festivals which people celeberate nicely and happily. Like Eid-ul- Fitar is a religious festival celebrated at the end of fasting month. On these festivals children’s are more excited to get eidi to their elders. After that Eid–ul- Aza comes celebration when Muslims from all over the world offer a sacrifice by slaughtering a sheep, cow, or goat following the traditional Islamic customs. It is also called the Festival of Sacrifice. Shab-e-Barat is a religious festival celebrated on 14th of Shaaban. The festival of Shab-e-Barat is celebrated with pomp and enthusiasm by Muslims all over the world. Many more Islamic festivals are celebrated by Muslims. When we talk about our national festivals . A very big festival of Pakistan is our independence day on 14th august 1947 which all peoples celebrate excitedly. On this day, meetings, processions and rallies are held all over the country and the whole country is decorated on this day. People from various walks of life decorate their houses with national flags and the buildings, city shopping centers, bazaars and all the main roads are also being adorned with flags and fancy lights. When we talk about our famous national event so in our mind there is our known lahori festival is basant. Comes. Basant is a Punjabi festival celebrating the onset of the spring season and is also called the Basant Festival of kites. This festival is celebrated with kite flying competitions all over the city. I think festivals are the best means that keeps all the citizens in touch with their culture and religion. Though people might forget the Pakistani history but these festivals do give them some idea about the Pakistani culture. Festivals also teach us moral lessons on various issue.

ADVERTISING TODAY

These days advertising is wherever you live in the world, whether it is Pakistan, America or Australia. Even in rural city you will see advertising. Advertising can be done in several ways through newspaper , radio ,TV and billboard which is put up along the roadside,so it is unavoidable for the average consumer.

Advertising is a communication tool which plays a role in achieving the financial and commercial objectives of the companies concerned.

Since advertisements are for general public or a specific target group of users, they have a great value attached to them. The ads are designed in a way to exploit the weakness of masses. This aim is perfectly delivered by the help of renowned celebrities, players and perfect lifestyle, promises of a better love life or getting a new employment. One example of this is ‘LUX’ ad in which models are advocating the beauty soap as their secret beauty treatment.

In our time advertising has become a big business. There are scores of large companies, employing thousands of writers and artists and other experts, that specialize in the field of advertising. These firms design and manage publicity campaigns for everything from a toothpaste to an aeroplane. They do their work so thoroughly that people cannot ignore advertisements as long as they are awake. Early in the morning when you open a newspaper a lady showing all her teeth advises you to use a particular brand of toothpaste another young woman tells you that her beautiful complexion is the gift of this or that. When you switch on your radio set, you are again at the mercy of the advertisers. If you ride a bus or walk along the road, you are not away from the advertisements.

Go anywhere enter a cinema hall, a restaurant, a railway station, dozens of advertisements are all around you even in the darkness of night, you cannot look towards the horizon without finding blazing noon-signs everywhere. The T V has become the most powerful medium of advertisers. Sometimes one feels that T V has sold its soul to the advertiser. Millions and millions of rupees are spent every year on advertising. the manufacturers of cosmetics, cigarettes, clothes and medicines spend huge amount of money. The publicity of their products .advertisements are in a way useful. They keep the public informed about the products. It is also claimed that advertisements help improve the standard of things they introduce and promote. It is supposed that a firm which has spent millions of rupees on the publicity of its products will constantly try to improve them in order to retain its reputation. But the millions of rupees spent on advertising add to the prices of things. In the last analysis. It is the consumer who pays the price of advertisements.In a nutshell, it is rightly said that you cannot sale gold with advertisement. A precious thing like Gold requires the help of advertisement for its progressing sale. Advertising is one of the strong modifying forces behind our changing personal and social life.

'LIFE IS A PRECIOUS GIFT OF GOD'

"Life is a precious gift from God, enjoyed every day in your life. While  good days are welcome, they give you happiness and occasions  to celebrate. You do not need to blame or curse bad days as they make you tough and give you a chance to find out your inner strengths to fight out the hardships and grief. Both are important and essential - like day and night - in your life." Life lesson sometimes things happen in life which we have no control over. When unexpected events occur in our lives they can make you a much stronger person.

In a life little little things or moments makes you happy so cheer these moments. Every one has to face many problems some faces big or some faces small problems no one is free from worries in their lives but think positive and think good because after worries you ‘ ll definitely comes a shine or happiness. Another precious gift from the GOD for a human in life is his family. Our life is a battle field where we fight against internal and external enemies everyday. When we get tired of everything we come back to family to get strength and get ready for another battle. A family is the place where we find all the joy, happiness, love, caring, strength, encouragement, comfort and unity. A life without a family is miserable. Without a family a person feels alone, there is nobody to give him company. He doesn't have any responsibility to take care of. its makes or life satisfied. Nature is the most beautiful creation from GOD . Many many more blessings which we can’t count easily so give importance to your’s life and spend your’s life happily.

Life is a such a good thing, you learn and at the same time  you  get close to “GOD’’ the most precious love…

                        “ I LOVE YOU GOD ”

MOBILE TECHNOLOGIES AROUND THE WORLD

      

As the world moving so fast technologies are changing day by day and the most important technology among all of  them are mobile phones as the time passes they become necessary in life. Mobile phones are now become fashion icon among peoples now peoples identified the mobile set they are using. Mentality of peoples are changing as they thought if they don’t have smart phones in  their hand, they come into inferiority complex and this is the point by which mobile phones companies built their profit and make their business. There are a lot of companies coming into market which launch their mobile phones with extra ordinary features which attract their customers and they have extra ordinary price too. Like apple and Samsung mobile phones.

10 years back we don’t have cameras in mobile phones. These mobiles phones only give voice communication and short message service (SMS). These mobile phones have black and white screen. Most common mobile phones brand which people used was NOKIA because its battery timing is very good. That time mobile phones rates are very high minimum 5000. So many people’s don’t  used mobile phones.

 

 

Now time is change and we have so many features in mobile phones like android, jelly bean, mega pixel for cameras, memory status, and many others in short we say that it is mini world in hand. In today’s smart phones we have bigger screen, more powerful   processors, longer battery life, faster data connections, higher-resolution cameras and more apps. The most popular smart phones today are powered by Google's Android and apple’s IOS mobile operating systems. These smart phones are very common in today’s world. In the third quarter of 2013, one billion smart phones were in use worldwide.  So we can say that these mobile technologies  have made our life much easier.